I love to kiss. I’m very fond of sex.

I never want to see anyone else kissing or having sex. And I’ve always felt this way.

We don’t invite everyone into our toilet or shower. We don’t ask to see people shaving their legs, clipping toe nails, or many other things that are ment to be between a person and perhaps one other person….maybe.

There is no advantage to placing the emphasis on Sex for homosexuals.

We are more about relationships, just like all of the rest of the society that we are offending by not being discrete about our private behavior.

If being gay is just about sex…then we really missed the boat on being human.

I agree. I don’t know what is worse:

Adam Lambert and his sleaze or Clay Aiken lying about being gay? Some role models eh?

This is a typical day for me:

I get up at 6:30AM. I shower and shave. I get ready for work. I have a bite to eat and brush my teeth. I catch the tail end of first hour of The Today Show and then head for work.

I work 8:30 to 5PM. The job is exciting enough and it pays the bills.

After work I head over to the grocery to buy dinner. I go home, cook it up, and eat it. I’ll watch some TV until about 9PM, read for an hour and then it is lights out.

That’s a typical day for me.

I’m sorry, but Lady Gaga smashing whiskey bottles doesn’t come close to simulating oral sex onstage. Nor does Janet Jackson grabbing a male dancer’s crotch, though that was too far also.

Lambert…you might not be a babysitter, but I’m pretty sure you know better than to do what you did. You weren’t performing at a gay strip club. It was a music awards show on national television. Grow the hell up, you freakin’ brat.

I sure as heck wasn’t looking for crotch-grinding pop stars or fake-tan “gymboiz” on rainbow-floats or leathermen in cock-leashes as my role-models, when I was 15 years old and trying to figure out the implications of the fact that my dick was ONLY interested in men.

They’re surprised when they find that I don’t bring a new girl home every night. They’re surprised when I tell them that I’m not interested in women who also sleep with men, and that I’m not attracted in the least to straight women (celebrities being the only exception). I’ve actually had them act strangely around me and later say, “well, I didn’t want you to get the wrong impression, because I’m not bi-curious…”

That offends me. They don’t understand why until I tell them, but it offends me. They get the wrong impression from crap like this and it’s getting under my skin in a huge way.

From your lips to God’s ears.

The San Francisco Parade would complete the set you’ve accumulated city by city. The San Francisco Parade is a classic example of the Gay Minstrel Show at it pinnacle. You name the sterotype and we do a great job of perpetuating it.

I have not attended since 1994 and in 2002 my gay friendly boss asked if I went to the parade. He asked me the Monday after the parade. I told him I did not go because I’ve been to it before and it gets old.

He said to me, “I figured you weren’t there because you don’t strike me as someone who is sleazy and vile.”

I asked him if that was his opinion of gays in general and he told me that was his opinion of ones who participate in that parade and those who watch that parade.

I thought to myself how sad it was that my boss got that message from the parade.